Wednesday, November 20, 2019

Refocus Yourself And Discover How To Triumph: What I consider to be a mistake amongst past or current relationship.

Writing this topic doesn't mean that am all perfect but rather still working on myself to develop myself in a way that I can which is why we need each other's help to grow so please take out your time to comment below on what you think your suggestions are on this topic after reading mine.

I want to use this opportunity to say thank you in advance because I believe and hope that you won't let me down on this one.

OK, before I start penning down what I have for you, I will like to let you know that I won't be formal with you that's why is a personal blog so I will just be myself and write like am writing to a friend in case you are reading my blog post for the first time especially with so much expectations, thinking of something different. Hmm, trying to call back your attention that This is so me and just expect only me.

I believe we all know what it means to focus and refocus on something. Seriously, I don't know what it is you're focusing your life on that is pulling you down which can be your past, future, career, family etc and a lot more to mention. I want to personally use myself as an example just like I have always done by telling you my own story.

I have taken my time to notice that I focus more on my fears (fear of making mistakes) always thinking of what if something goes wrong, what if I don't get it correctly, what if something happens and some other "What if " that you can think of. Sincerely, I have tried talking to myself like giving encouragement just like am doing now but those feelings are still there because we are human and we all have our weakness and fears, the only thing is that it has reduced unlike it was. The truth is that those feelings are still there because we are human in order words, we all need to learn how to manage and suppress them till it fades away.

I understand if you actually feel like your situation wasn't mentioned above or isn't the same with what am saying, then you don't have to worry because we are still saying the same thing here depending on the perspective you're viewing it from, you will still notice the similarities.

You should refocus on the things you think that are the majors which are actually the minors. The two major things are focusing on God and then yourself because when God comes first every other thing in your life (yourself) follows.
First, is to focus more on God if you really believe in God because he will direct your paths, establish your plans and help you discover more about many  things that you haven't noticed yet. This still remains my best Bible verse, commit to the lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans._Proverbs 16:3

Secondly, is to focus more on yourself and you should always try to find something that gives you hope, motivates and encourages you (positive mindset). The most important is to constantly remind yourself that you don't have to do what everyone else is doing neither do you have to please everyone around you nor try to win the approval of people about your life because we are all different and unique in our own way so find your path and follow it.

One thing I know for sure is that, Good humor is a tonic for mind and body. It is the best antidote for anxiety and depression. It is a business asset. It attracts and keeps friends. It lightens human burdens. It is the direct route to serenity and contentment. _Grenville kleiser.

Finally, I will be ending but before I drop my pen, I would like to finish up with a story about what I consider to be a mistake amongst past (or current) relationships.

OK I have a mistake but I don't see it as my biggest mistake tho is a family issue shaa, that became a serious challenge to my life.        I feel my mistake was the inability to express myself when necessary which I couldn't do, and it lead to a family issue that I encountered this year.

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